My Story
I’m Rhona, the heart and soul behind Re-ignite Your Relationship
For years, I felt trapped in an emotionally distant marriage. I longed for connection, but what I often experienced was conflict, unmet needs, and a sense of disconnection so deep it left me questioning what love was supposed to feel like.
Despite trying to make it work, I came to the painful realization that there was no strong foundation of trust, communication, or emotional safety to rebuild on. I know what it feels like to suffer in silence, to crave being seen and understood, and to wonder if true, lasting intimacy is even possible.
But I also know this: change is possible.
Having gone through the heartbreak of divorce, I carried lessons into my next chapter. When I met Steve, we were in our 40s, both divorced, both determined to create a relationship that felt different. Like most couples, we experienced the exciting, blissful honeymoon phase, but we knew it wouldn’t last unless we made a conscious decision—this time, we weren’t just hoping for a great relationship, we were building one.
We deep dived into learning about successful, strong relationships. We learned each other’s communication styles, emotional triggers, and needs. We wanted to create a partnership that not only lasted, but one that felt easy, safe, and joyful long after the honeymoon phase faded. We didn’t want to keep repeating the patterns that made our past relationships falter.
We read books, we studied work by relationship experts like the Gottmans, psychologists, and therapists, and we crafted strategies that worked for us. What we discovered became the blueprint for the deep emotional intimacy and connection we now enjoy—and it’s what I’ve used to help other women navigate their relationships too.
How Re-ignite Your Relationship Was Born
The idea for Re-ignite Your Relationship started during a conversation with Steve on a sunlit beach in Spain. We had been reflecting on how often self-help books and resources pop up in stores or bestseller lists, yet rarely do they address what holds relationships together. Society teaches us so much about achieving success and growing careers, yet it leaves us in the dark about something so essential: how to cultivate and sustain love.
As we talked, it became crystal clear that the cornerstone of a thriving relationship is communication. Even if other aspects of a relationship—like intimacy, trust, or emotional safety—need work, you have to know how to talk about them.
Now, my mission is to take the tools and techniques that worked for me—both in healing from my past relationship and creating the love I share with Steve—and help other women in committed relationships do the same.
How Re-ignite Your Relationship Was Born
Re-ignite Your Relationship isn’t just about solving conflicts; it’s about helping women rediscover themselves, rebuild emotional intimacy, and create a relationship where they feel seen, loved, and valued.
I understand the pain of feeling stuck, unseen, and exhausted by the constant push-and-pull in a relationship. But I also know the overwhelming joy and fulfillment that comes when you reclaim your voice, own your needs, and step into a partnership that feels safe, connected, and deeply aligned.
My mission is simple: to help you create a love that thrives and a relationship where you feel truly at home.
The tools I teach are grounded in my personal journey, proven strategies, and real conversations with women like you—women who are ready to do the work to stop surviving their relationship and start thriving in it.
Let’s take the first step together.
How Do I Know My Program Works?
Over the years, we’ve applied everything we’ve learned to our own relationship—and it’s transformed the way we connect. For the past blissful eight years, we’ve never had a single argument. That’s not because we’ve avoided hard conversations—far from it—but because we made a promise to each other: to always approach every concern with honesty, openness, and vulnerability.
We’ve learned that better communication doesn’t come naturally for most couples—it’s a skill anyone can develop. Once you understand how to communicate effectively, the constant friction and bickering over day-to-day issues melt away, allowing you to focus on strengthening your emotional connection.
At Re-ignite Your Relationship, I’m dedicated to helping women in committed relationships rebuild the bond they thought they’d lost. If you’re worried that the spark is fading, overwhelmed by conflict, or unsure where to start, I’m here to help you break free from the frustration and rediscover the love you deserve.
Maybe resentment has quietly built up over time, and you don’t feel equipped to address it. Perhaps you’ve noticed emotional distance between you and your partner, or you’re doing everything you can to make things better, but it never seems to be enough.
If this sounds like you, know that you’re not alone—and that change is possible. My 6-week coaching program is designed to help you rebuild trust, improve communication, and create a relationship that feels aligned, safe, and deeply fulfilling.
When you’re ready to take that first step, reach out. Let’s bring back the connection and partnership you’ve been longing for.
Our Values
Authenticity and integrity are the foundation of everything I do. I am deeply committed to guiding you through a transformation that feels aligned, meaningful, and sustainable.
My promise is simple: to help you move from feeling unseen, unappreciated, and emotionally distant in your relationship to feeling supported, valued, and deeply connected. Through our work together, you’ll gain the confidence and tools to rebuild trust, express your needs without fear, and create a partnership where both you and your partner thrive.
This transformation isn’t about quick fixes—it’s about creating lasting emotional intimacy and a relationship that feels safe, fulfilling, and aligned with the love you both deserve.
If you’re ready to embrace this journey, I’m here to walk with you every step of the way. You can learn more about what’s involved here.
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